The first thing to do is find a school or church that has the same belief system as you. Start at the beginning and work your way all the way through their high priestess/pastoral level. Hopefully you are a patient person because any school worth a damn will take two to four years to complete. Most schools or churches will include the ordination with the high priestess initiation. You will also want to check with your state government to see what churches they allow to perform rites of marriage since many states do not accept internet churches.