Next, I've been seeing this guy that I have fallen in love with. How do I make him feel the same way? I've tried to let him be, but he comes back. It's like he's afraid to be close.
I have no idea what you are talking about. Your friend's mother is old. She is probably leaving bottles of water around because she can't remember where she left them. She's old. She probably falls asleep all the time. She's old. She's probably breaking shit left and right!
As for the guy you've fallen in love with, if you want the love to be real, you are not going to do a spell. Give him some time. It takes two people to make a relationship work, not one person casting a spell on another one. Personally, I'd rather know someone loves me for me, not because I worked magick for it.